things you need to avoid in relationships

 To maintain a healthy relationship, avoid things like: constant criticism, lack of communication, dishonesty, controlling behavior, holding grudges, neglecting your partner's needs, comparing them to others, not respecting boundaries, isolating yourself from friends and family, and ignoring red flags; prioritize open communication, mutual respect, and active listening instead.

     Here are specific things to avoid in a relationship:

Make your girlfriends jealous

Only boys make their girlfriends jealous and not Men. While you think her getting jealous shows how much she loves/likes you, it can also show how she is feeling a lack of love. Learning from oversmart men who lost their relationships just because they took their girlfriend’s insecurity as a joke, I strictly recommend not to do so.

Lie

Most of you would say that this is cliche. But still, we as a tribe, continue to do that. You might think your lies are justified but you shouldn’t overestimate your sense of judgement. For eg- lying to her because you have a Birthday surprise for her is justified while lying to her that you did not smoke so that you both don’t fight isn’t a rightful cause no matter how much you think otherwise.

The past should stay in the past.

When old baggage is continually dredged up, no one can move towards a happy future. It’s essential to make peace with whatever is serving as a sore spot in the relationship. 

Regardless of what’s happened, it can’t be changed despite the amount of time spent arguing or worrying over the incident. It’s more important to focus on the present and how you can step into the future.

 Rough times need addressing, not ignored

Spouses Sit Separate on Sofa at Home Ignore Each Other Avoid Talking After Arguing

Healthy relationships face challenges. It would be unusual to be involved in a long-term committed partnership and not have ups and downs. The test of strength is how both people work together to cope with the downs. 

It’s not easy, nor is it supposed to be. It requires plenty of effort. If one person chooses to ignore it with the notion it will work itself out is not worth your effort. That’s not how a relationship should be.